COMMENTS FROM CLIENTS
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Comments for George Collins, M.A.
After struggling with a Porn obsession for my entire adult life I was on the brink of losing my 20 year marriage when I came to see George, in the United States, at Compulsion Solutions. I did his one week intensive. We worked real hard and, amazingly, I learned the origin of my compulsion and the tools to recognize the triggers and situations that led to acting out as well as the strategies that I can use to be in control of myself. Once the layers of my addiction were peeled away and exposed I learned that I could actually redirect that energy into a totally fulfilling relationship with my Wife. Thank you for everything. —Howard, Toronto, Canada
George, you convinced me that my behavior was never the "real me," it was my "false self." A coping strategy for deep rooted pain. I learned to stop, to forgive myself, and to love myself. To see myself for who I really am. My family and I are forever grateful. Thank You My Friend. -Pete
This is an actual phone message we received from a former client who found himself in a strip club for business reasons. We asked him if we could use it on this website if we kept it anonymous. He replied, "Of course. You can quote anything I say if you feel like it will help another soul." We believe that it could help you.
George - Words can't express how much your counseling, guidance, and sensitivity has helped me come to terms with myself. I feel you have (we have) unlocked some more potential in me, helping me to become a better human being. I will always be indebted to you for the gentle way you've guided me on the right path to healthier living. Thanks for your understanding. -Steve
George, thank you so much for the "real life" that I've experienced since seeing you. I'm glad I didn't listen to my "friends," who said that it was ridiculous to fly up from L.A. to the Bay Area for weekly counseling sessions. I, actually, figured out that I've saved a bunch of money (considering what it cost for my addictive lifestyle). Thanks to our work my business is booming again and my wife and I are finally realizing what intimacy is all about. It surely isn't about high end prostitutes. Intimacy: into-me-you-see. I'll never forget the moment you told me that. A light bulb went off. Hey, I still do get addictive impulses but, thanks to you, I know what to do about them. What a miracle! Thank you George. - In gratitude, Cary
Dear George - Of all the many people I have had the pleasure to know in this life, you are very special. By your kindness, understanding, and ability to do such good healing work, you have helped me so much. For this I am grateful. I will never forget you and the work we have done together. - John
George, you've allowed me to seek out a new life and new civilizations. I can now go where no man has gone before.... Oh, sorry that's James T. Kirk from Star Trek. Just allowing my creative side to come-out-of-the-closet so to speak has given me a chance at a career I never would have dreamed of. My inner "little Boy" has playmates and they all play fair. I owe you a great deal of gratitude for allowing me to believe in myself... and loving myself. - Fred
George, You said that, if I paid attention and did the work, that I would have no alternative but to, once and for all, face myself eye to eye. Done. And, as a result I find that I am finally accepting myself fully...forgiving myself...the heart holding me...my (historic) mind stepping aside...more joy...less pain...more hope and resolve...less regret and worry. Living...loving...Ahhh...Yes................ With love my friend, Peter
George, It feels very good to "speak" to you (via email). I miss our male intimacy and the laughter and the lessons of our time together. It's very reassuring to have you there. I extend my love and thanks for the remarkable help you gave me. I SEE the world in a new way because of you and, I know, a growing self love and joy in my life. Damon
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Comments for James Gallegos
Thank you for your ability to match my energy, and your personableness and humor that you bring to your job....very much appreciated. -Archie
James, as I told you recently, you have been supportive, non-judgmental, insightful, sometimes even funny, and always instrumental in my ability to see things in a new way and to begin the process of transformation. I also appreciate the fact that you've been where I am now and are further along the path, keeping me ON it and helping me along. Thanks so much. -Bill
James, gratitude is not a quality I have had much in my life so far and I find myself awakening to it. I feel gratitude for you holding the space for me to be whoever I am in the moment. I feel gratitude for you dedicating your work to walking with others in this affliction that has caused you (yourself) so much suffering. I want to tell you that you are a pioneer. I think, at this point, I am just an intelligent and (driven by truth) mascot -Aden
I was just reflecting on my new life and the lack of pull in dangerous directions. I have you, largely (almost entirely), to thank for that. I really appreciate all your help and understanding. Worth every penny. Just the fact that you're on the earth is a blessing. I'm glad of what you went through to get where you are. Keep on doing what you're doing because you're helping people. -Jack
James I have lived with this problem for many years. I have not met anyone who has had the understanding that you have. I have liked your approach so far very much and I am keen to continue. -Ian
Good afternoon, you crossed my mind today as I took my son and daughter to soccer practice, then swimming, then the mall. I just browsed through my wallet and counted $262, and felt so good about the fact that this money is for mothers day presents. Felt good to "feel" what it may have been like if I used it for other purposes. -Steven
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Comments for Faye Reitman
Faye Reitman came into my life at a time when I was desperately seeking help for my sex-addicthusband. I ended up finding help for myself instead. I reached out... for him... because our world wasfalling down on our heads. I had given all I possessed to help him and to save the relationship, and as aresult, I was losing my home, my financial security, my livelihood and my marriage. Not to mention mysense of dignity and self-esteem. Faye reached back... for me.
I had tried counseling a time or two. I came from a troubled family and a string or bad relationshipchoices. However, I became disenchanted with therapists and almost gave up believing there wassomeone out there who could help, until fate, and my last bit of faith, brought Faye my way.
Faye has been my mainstay through my journey back to a life I can call my own. It has been, and is, along road, but she has been a wise and generous friend and counselor every step of the way. She hasbeen many things to me... skilled, professional, funny, human, understanding. But above all of things shehas been something simple, but rare in my world: reliable. A person to count on. I am glad every day Imade the call that brought Faye into my life. It is the best investment I ever made.
—A Former Client
I came to you and Compulsion Solutions over nine months ago, distraught, confused and totally despairing. My life did not seem to be my own. I was in a relationship with a sex addict, and I had lost my grasp on my sense of self, my worth, and my direction in life. I was so confused--the betrayals, lies, distortions, and disappointments had taken their toll, and I had become someone I did not like. I was emotionally fragile, obsessive, and in so much pain. I had tried couples counseling with my partner, and several 12-step programs for sex and love addicts, codependents, and couples in recovery. Although I gained some help along the way, nothing had really worked for me....until I found Compulsion Solutions. (continue reading)
Comments for Paldrom Collins
Paldrom, I don't even quite know how it is you do it - but you have helped me open a door to peace, a door to a joy in the present moment - and all in the midst of great change, sometimes in the chaos of life swirling around me. The whole process has been unfamiliar and surprising. And it's also felt like I've known how to do this all along. What a beautiful person you are. I'm so glad you've come into my life. - Kim
Paldrom, Words could never describe the invaluable insights that you openly share. You offer specific tools like an instruction manual to use our minds in a beneficial way. I am deeply grateful for your wisdom and presence. - Maria
George - Thank you for being there for me and now for Joan. The conference call session was awesome! A huge step forward for us. Super great. - Bill
George and Paldrom, Thank you for being there and teaching us about love. We cannot express our feelings of gratitude. - Love, Tom and Barbara
George and Paldrom, I wanted to give (you both) special thanks for all that you have guided us through over the course of the past eight months or so. The care and support we have received is immeasurable and we are truly grateful to you. - Susan
I debated for a long time if I should send this to you. I wrote it for me, not to share with you, but when I was done, I thought that maybe it would be good for you to read it. So here is is... Read Entire Letter from a Client's Wife to her Husband
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